Saturday, May 17, 2014

The supermen in my life...

Scott may be my madman, yet he is also my superman. And he is not the only superman in my life these days, but he is the one I see the most.
That's my madman, Scott Cornwell
Super power: Irritating yours truly
My Stockholm Syndrome is officially over. When back in New York in April, my brother-in-law coined the  phrase "Scott-holm Syndrome" which I now use to describe my former state of mind, which still comes back occasionally.

All photos here are from one of the first truly warm and sunny days of this year in Dubuque, March 21, 2014, when I was sitting outside with my three supermen. We had just closed on this property one week earlier, so we were in a relaxed state at long last.

Our beloved seller, Bill Feye
Super power: Baiting bureaucrats
Great moments with Bill abound. We're friends now and he continues clearing out at least one lifetime's worth of stuff from the main building, so I'm fortunate to see him regularly still. Bill has no end of fascinating stories, some of which involve city officials. There was one time he told a city inspector, more or less, "The only difference between you and the Gestapo: the Gestapo had a submachine gun while you, sir, have a clipboard!"  I have even had the pleasure of witnessing a city official literally scoff when speaking about Bill. I think he is the most interesting man in Dubuque and also one of the kindest.

Our tenant, Dave "Spider" Weber
Super Power: Staying sober
The third man in my life is Spider, our tenant with his own auto body shop, and formerly Bill's tenant of over 25 years. He's wonderful, the first to help a person in a jam, and we get along real well. Years ago, he had a serious substance abuse problem; today, he is a leader in AA and he works to help people rebuild their lives. When Scott and Spider were clearing out the cavernous basement of the smokestack building in the dead of winter, Scott remarked to Spider, "You could put a  bath house down here. Imagine it, Spider: a pool, steam room, sauna, cold vodka, girls in bikinis!" and Spider's reply as he smiled and shook his head,"That's it, I'm going back to jail," still one of the greatest lines we have heard these last five months.

They sadly broke the molds after these men, but they keep it interesting and they are each insightful in their own unique ways.

Friday, May 9, 2014

A couple's dreams realized

The first of these realized dreams is that we finally closed on our real estate transactions in mid-March. Both in Brooklyn and in Dubuque. My Facebook post "We own it at last! was accompanied by this photo

but not this one of me standing inside the corner building at the window overlooking the roof of the smokestack building. It's a commercial property in Downtown Dubuque. There is very serious work ahead of Scott and me. Can't you tell? There will be more on this dream later, rest assured.



Another dream realized in the last few months was a very personal one for me: to live in a hotel. I have fantasized about living in a hotel for decades. I don't know why, but maybe it's related to my reading some of Stephen Lewis's writing about his life growing up in NYC hotels when he was the son of a hotelman in Times Square and they had a family apartment. I first read his articles in Gourmet magazine many years ago and then his memoir Hotel Kid. Forget Eloise, I never read it. Whenever things got rough in my life, particularly in my early 20s, my escape seemed to always include moving to a hotel for a long-term stay. So Scott and I got to live this fantasy at the Hotel Canfield in Dubuque. Since we first rolled into Dubuque in July, 2013, the Canfield has been our favorite hotel.

To say that the Canfield is a little quirky is an understatement. They do things old-style, no Internet presence, but they do take credit cards. The Canfield was our introduction to Dubuque back in July when we first accidentally stumbled upon Dubuque. Every room is decorated uniquely. It may not be the place for everyone, but the price and experience are fabulous for many of us!

Christmas in the Canfield lobby

The card on the inside of our room's door,
"Fixing, Limiting and Determining the Liability of Keepers of Hotels,
Inns, Eating Houses and Steamboat Owners to Inmates Therof" 

When we checked in for the month stay, we got the 6-page list of rules, on legal-size paper, for monthly and weekly guests. The owner explained that they started out with maybe three rules and then they had to keep adding over the years every time something happened. An example I vaguely recall was they once had a liberal pet policy, until the guest with the snake. Whenever I would feel low, I'd turn to this list for reading pleasure. I got perverse delight in reading, "Please turn off all lights and T.V.'s when you are not in the room to assist in saving electricity - the cost is 'going through the ceiling.'" Or, on reserving the right to limit the amount of personal property in any guest's room, "These are not storage units, but rather living quarters." Or, on the need to close windows for proper heating and cooling, "One open window "screws" up everything." Or, on the lovely deck, "This was built for your use and pleasure, let's not violate this... Let's keep the deck neat, it is a nice place to visit. Cigarette butts should be put in proper containers and not just thrown about - work with the Hotel on this." You get the idea. 

Good ol' Room 419, I miss you!
Hallway alcove on 4 with my replacement cat
Just a few of our room's decorative touches
Our dining and kitchen area
Our sleeping and sitting areas
Decor from one of our summer rooms
Further decor from that summer room
My first view of the lobby back in July.
Yes, these are Native American mannequins, and they are not the
only Native American mannequins in Dubuque.
I so wish they could talk 
The exterior, showing the wonderful Rainbow Lounge.
Whether you do or do not like karaoke, you must check it out.
Every once in a while, I get wistful and think of moving back to the Canfield permanently. Not that it's so difficult trying to rehab our place or that Scott has gotten on my nerves once again, but I truly love and miss the Canfield and the kind and interesting people there.